by Tamar Caspi under
100hookup,
Online Dating,
Relationships
One of my single friends forwarded me the funniest email she received from a 100hookup. It said (identifying details have been removed): “Hi, my name is xxxxx. I live in xxxx and am a lawyer. In my free time I like to watch and play sports. I just signed up for 100hookup last week.” Yup, that was it. It was all about him but nothing new that she couldn’t have learned from looking at his profile. There was nothing about her and why he wanted to start up a conversation with her and there were no questions for her to answer to create a tete a tete. So what was his point in writing her? Why bother? I’ll give him some benefit of the doubt since he’s new to 100hookup, but if you’re going to write an email make it worth it. Tell your prospect WHY you choose him or her to write to and ASK more about him or her.
by jpompey under
Relationships,
Single Life
What would you say if I told you that you could cause women to feel high levels of attraction towards you without even doing anything?
Would you be interested?
I’m going to let you all in on a little secret that most people don’t know about.
The human body is a complicated thing. We are constantly releasing hormones and chemicals that cause us to feel and experience different things that are beyond our control. And with that said, one of the things that we can’t control are feelings of attraction.
Attraction is something that men and women just feel. We feel it mostly when we see something visual. Women feel it for ten reasons that have nothing to do with looks.
With that said, one way to make women feel attraction is by scaring them. When women are frightened it releases many of the same hormones that cause attraction. And while we don’t want to scare them in the, I’m a creepy online dater way, we can find many fun activities that will provide our dates with a scare during October. Stay tuned to future blog entries for some great ideas.
by JeremySpoke under
Relationships,
Single Life
As I have already mentioned, I recently started my first job in the education field. I am lucky enough to be in a class of three to five-year-olds. I soon learned that that is the perfect age group to teach. They are old enough to know how to walk and talk and are young enough to not know anything at all. They have no inhibitions. They don’t care what comes out of their mouths. They don’t understand concepts like ‘friendship’ and ‘anger’. Again, they don’t know anything.
Spending an entire day with a group of these people is akin to a bad acid trip. It’s like suddenly learning that an entire race of people, whom you thought didn’t exist, actually existed. They don’t care about anything. They cause all of my insecurities to surface. They constantly ask why I sweat so much. One child asked how I got so hairy. I told him that I got it from my dad. He responded by asking if my dad is a werewolf. That conversation actually took place. Yesterday. Afternoon.
If these children have taught me anything, and they haven’t, it’s that I shouldn’t be ashamed or embarrassed about anything ever. My insecurities on dates would pretty much disappear after a full week with these children. I bet about eighty 80 percent of my dates nowadays are spent worried about why I sweat so much. After a half hour with these kids, the only thing I will be thinking of on dates from now on is how happy I am that I’m on a date and not in an elementary school.