The Wave Theory
by SWEETADVENTURE8
under Date Night,JBloggers,Single Life
So when does that initial, likely random, first date turn into something less random and more familiar? When does the relationship start feeling as if you’re with someone who should have always been there…?
ON the first date you had a good time, a great time, a pleasant time. You go on a second and third date, but yet you’re not yet convinced as you begin to dip your feet into the potentially rough riptides. You are in the ocean taking a step further in as each date passes, but the question is, are you being brought back to the sandy shore because of other options in the dating pool, or maybe because it just doesn’t feel quite right and the waves are pushing you back?
Or
Is it something that sticks with you even if you are not quite sure if you can explain it? Even if it’s based on nothing more than a feeling, it’s still something you feel you should “tread” out. So you hang out where you toes barely touch and you tread water content with seeing where this swim can take you. Will you encounter a tsunami with waves that will crash and burn or will it be a calm excursion that brings you deeply intertwined in a calm that you never experienced.
Many of us have our one-hit wonders that bring us back to shore, BUT in the event there is that connection that is worth treading for, hold on to it for dear life because waves like that don’t come around too often. Some might even say it is an illusion, so enjoy the ride.
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