by jpompey 
under
Relationships
Just got a new phone number online? Haven’t met yet? Haven’t even talked on the phone yet? Grab that smart phone and start texting!
These days texting is an essential part of online dating. It will help you get to know the person you are with for a long period of time. While you spend days randomly texting here and there, the comfort levels will increase and go way up.
By the time you meet for a first date, comfort levels will be so high that it will not feel awkward or like a blind date at all. Run your messages right and you may even feel like you have already been dating for a long period of time.
How often should you text?
Don’t overdo it. Remember, you don’t know each other yet, so you don’t want to come across as creepy or stalkerish. A random text here or there will get the job done.
More on what to text in the next entry!
by jpompey under
Online Dating,
Relationships
I’d like to start off my very first JBlog by saying welcome and thank you for viewing this page. Since this is my first blog here I thought it would be a good idea to introduce myself, tell you all a little bit about who I am and what my goal with this blog will be.
My name is Joshua Pompey and I am an online dating consultant and enthusiast, as well as author of The REAL Online Game for the REAL Online Dater. Why am I bringing this book up five seconds into meeting you all? Don’t worry, this is not a shameless plug and I am not here to fill this great blog with annoying spam. The reason I mention this is because developing “the real online game” is what I have focused the past 2 years of my life on. For years I was a struggling online dater that failed to succeed with online dating no matter what I said, wrote, or tried. Eventually, I figured out how to be highly successful but it was a long process that took me years of learning. I bring this up because one of the things that I want to accomplish with this blog is help some of the struggling online daters that may not have met that special someone yet and are starting to lose hope.
Online dating is one of the greatest inventions ever. Are there many better notions than going digital shopping for that perfect person any time you want? However, at the same time, many of us often run into difficult times when things are not going as well as we hope they would. There will always be ups and downs.
My goal with this blog will be to pick us up when we are feeling down, as well as celebrate all the good times and great stories that online dating brings. Providing help and advice will be far from the only aspects of online dating that I will discuss. I want to create a safe community where we can share ALL aspects of online dating in addition to random things going on in pop culture. I have no shortage of topics that I would like to discuss, share, and help with.
If you have any suggestions for something you would like to hear about, let me know at any time. I am here to serve and entertain you!
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