Join for Free
|◄JBlog Home
Mar 10

Lost and Broken

by GemsFromJen under JBloggers,100hookup,Relationships

Dear Gems from Jen,

Background:  Briefly, met a nice girl online and we began dating during the first part of the year. I live in Connecticut, she lives in NYC. We had much to talk about and enjoyed each other’s company on our meetings.  Soon, I was staying over on weekends.  She took me out on my birthday; I took her out of NYC for Valentine’s Day.  We went to shows, comedy events, concerts, etc.  We never had a cross word, disagreement or argument. Suddenly, just a few days ago, she refuses to talk to me anymore – stone cold. We were on our second month. Nothing was ever spoken directly of being exclusive or anything like that. I think it was still a little early.

So what happened?  Why did she cast me off? Is there anything I can do?  I really liked this woman and did whatever I could to make our time together great.

Signed,

Lost and Broken

Dear Lost and Broken,

I am so sorry to hear about this. I do know from my own experience how difficult this can be to make sense of. I wish I knew what happened and her reasons behind not speaking to you any longer. I am not going to try and guess what her motivations are, but rather I am going to do my best to look at this from another perspective.

Even though this is probably going to be difficult to read and put into practice, please try. Look at it this way; she is a coward. Obviously something happened and she does not have the courage to explain it to you. Consider yourself lucky. Do you want to be with someone who runs and hides? Do you want to be with someone who does not have a clue about communication?  Do you want to be with someone who has the capacity to throw people away? I know I sure wouldn’t. I do understand that you need closure, but give yourself the closure. Make the decision to move forward without her. If she does get in touch, keep in mind these questions I have asked you. If she can do it once, she can do it twice. Give yourself some time to mourn the loss, but don’t dwell on it. It sounds like you are a great catch and there are many women on 100hookup who would be very grateful to meet someone like you.

Signed,

Gems from Jen

Tags: , ,

best way to find hookups

Ladies had been tired of guys blowing up their messages with creepy first liners, so Bumble came along. On Coffee Meets Bagel, only men and women you ve liked back can message you, and swiping through persons will not take up all your free time. Tindering is now a verb, but it really is far from your only choice. Skip the stress of constant inbox notifications with CMB s small user base and authentic, curated matches that ll get delivered straight to you each day at noon. Tinder is a initially thought when it comes to dating apps for a purpose. There is space to discover on the social media like app. rubratings houston If she s producing you uncomfortable, inform her that one thing came up and you have to have to leave. Make certain that the girl gets property safely right after your hook up. Both your and her encounter will be superior if you element on great terms. Show her that you care about her wellness and effectively becoming by helping her get home. Supply to drive her house or to call her a ride if she can t drive herself dwelling. With that in mind, don t hesitate when you get the invite and go. Hold in thoughts that a wedding is a night extended party on which you never have to commit a single buck. And if that does not convince you, absolutely nothing will. fairbanks skipthegames As the registration course of action is accomplished, 1 can verify their age and get started to input data about them to find a appropriate match following their preference and need. The interface looks a bit like Tinder but has numerous far more improvements with improved attributes and matchmaking ability with the prospective users. The web page has various functions, which attract the customers in search of casual hookups and casual relationships. All the site s features are most importantly supplied absolutely free of expense, with no subscription charges coming anyplace in additional usage of the website.