Join for Free
|◄JBlog Home
Apr 26

He Wants Kids

by GemsFromJen under JBloggers,Relationships

Dear Gems from Jen,

I met a guy on 100hookup a few months ago. He is nearly 50 and never married. His profile said that he wanted to have kids.

I have kids and don’t want more. I asked him if he wants kids and he said he didn’t know. Well, as we got more intimate, I asked where the relationship was going. He asked if we need to put a label on it. I told him I was looking for a monogamous relationship. Then he said he thinks he wants kids, so I said I couldn’t date him since it is past my time to have them.  He said okay and we stopped seeing each other. Well, he called and we ended up seeing each other again. I don’t know what to make of this. We get along so well. I don’t know if I should go along with it and see what happens or just stop.

Dear He Wants Kids,

It sounds as if you are both sending one another mixed messages. It seems as if he is unsure about what it is he wants and the same goes for you. You know there is no possibility of having more children and it isn’t something you want.  However, you have chosen to date this man even though you know the two of you are on different pages. How did you feel when he said he didn’t want to put a label on the relationship? You want monogamy; he doesn’t. He appears to want more children; you don’t.

I understand how exciting it can be when two people really hit it off, but this relationship seems as if there are two people who want very different things. If you are willing to have a casual fling with this guy then go for it.  However, if monogamy is what you want, I invite you to take a step back and look at what it is you are sacrificing because you are getting along well with someone. Keep in mind also that his desire for children will in all likelihood outweigh this relationship. Unless the two of you are both willing to give up your own wants and needs this particular match seems unlikely to have any longevity.

Signed,

Gems from Jen

Tags: ,

threesome hookup sites

Please I m not up right here for games or some lies factors . I am right here for new good friends, open for serious relationship, friends..Really feel cost free to ask me something you want. I m really mad that they force me to do this, but fine, I ll do it. I m gonna start out by saying that I like to write. I also generally wanted to animate my personal stories, that would be truly good and somehow I know that I can do it properly sufficient. rub ratings new york Fraud filters – the SPdate internet site options constructed in fraud filters, which are really valuable when it comes to acquiring fake accounts and removing them. After you are accomplished with that, you should verify your age and get started editing your profile, fill in some info about you, in order to locate your best match. Effortless Registration – unlike several other typical dating sites, SPdate site offers you the solution to register in several distinct strategies. Read the person, figure out if you want anything additional from that person, and comply with your gut instinct. This guide to bumble hookups will absolutely get you laid with tons of hot females if you are prepared to apply the guidance and put in the perform. Females judge guys on dating apps for appears, funds, and status, just like we judge them, as well. This makes it an incredibly special dating app, where for when, the woman has to take the initiation. Although hookup relationships are under no circumstances exclusive, take into consideration hiding the evidence of preceding a single night stands. Otherwise, a girl would really feel like the connection has no which means to you she could possibly get hurt or offended by it. louisville hook up sites As soon as you have seduced the girl into kicking it with you at the party, try and be a gentleman as nicely if you want to hook up with her later. Pull a chair out for the girl, hold the coat of the girl, let the girl step into rooms initially, hold doors open for the girl and so on. You will have to do all that if you want to stand a chance with the girl. If you believed chivalry was dead, you require to resurrect it now, even if it signifies calling upon your lord and savior.