Why Didn’t He Call?
under JBloggers,100hookup,RelationshipsDear Gems from Jen,
I just got out of a relationship for no reason. My ex of 2.5 months didn’t even call and tell me why he didn’t want to be with me anymore. Do you know why that would be?
Dear Why Didn’t He Call,
I’m sorry this happened to you. There really is no excuse for this kind of behavior. My guess is you are feeling hurt, confused and left with a sense of unfinished business. I believe that people do this because they are afraid of the reaction they might receive from the person they no longer want to spend time with. It is a cowardly maneuver and based on fear. There are some people who would rather avoid potential hurt feelings, conflict or anger rather than being candid and truthful. The truth is, these people in reality are only looking out for themselves and have little empathy for the people they are no longer communicating with.
Look at it this way; do you want to be with someone who does not know how to state his wants, needs or feelings? This person does not know how to communicate in a mature fashion. Consider yourself lucky and move on to someone who is willing to be honest with you. Not everyone, thankfully, engages in this avoidant behavior. There are some great guys on 100hookup who would never use this tactic. With that said, take a look at your profile, spruce it up if need be, and get going meeting some of these men!
Signed,
Gems from Jen