To Thine Own Self Be True
by Tamar Caspi
under Date Night,100hookup,Online Dating,Relationships
What do you do when you meet someone on 100hookup who has selected “Never” under the “Drinking Category” when you like your glass of wine or bottle of beer at night?
How do you handle flirting with a non-smoker when you love your cigarettes?
What’s your initial reaction when you receive a message from a cute vegetarian, but you pride yourself on being a carnivore?
You have to be true to yourself, and you can’t pretend to be someone you’re not when you’re looking for “forever.” Don’t hesitate to order a drink on your date just because he or she doesn’t imbibe, unless of course they are in AA and then you need to discuss how they feel about it first. If you never plan on quitting smoking, but your date is disgusted by the scent of cigarettes, then you might not want to light up, but you also need to make it clear that you don’t plan on stopping until you feel like it (quitting for someone else never works). Eating out with someone with differing eating habits shouldn’t be a problem, but be respectful of their choices when ordering on their behalf or cooking at home.
Some differences are good, others are a dealbreaker. Again, as long as you’re keeping it real and respectful, then there’s no reason it couldn’t work.
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