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Love At First 100hookup: Handing Out Your ‘Digits’

by JenG under 100hookup,Online Dating,Single Life

When I first told a small group of my closest friends that I was going to join 100hookup, one of them (who has spent a couple of months on the site), turned to me with endearing and enthusiastic eyes and asked, “What’s your plan?”

Plan? What kind of plan did I need? Don’t I just set up a profile with my “who, what, where, why, and when,” and just wait? Did I need to make a to-do list, or a color-coded chart to handle my new wired up dating life?

I told my friend that my plan would include simply emailing any guys I had interest in to set up a date. “Email?!” she said with a non-stop laugh. “That wont go over well.”

Before I joined the site, I was wary about giving out my number. I have a very close-knit relationship with my phone, it goes everywhere with me, even the bath tub (thank you overprotective phone case). The last thing I want is a swarm of text messages from a jumbled mess of men I wouldn’t be able to place a face to a name to… yet. My “plan” of action would be to give out my phone number to a guy, but only after we met in person, and only if we really hit off.

After spending a week on the site, and having several requests to exchange numbers, I quickly realized the only sense of a “plan” I had going into this was suddenly an ultimate failure. I was even turning off guys where I thought there might have been potential. When someone intriguing asked for my digits, I’d say something awkward and nonsensical, making me seem mistakenly distant or uninterested.

So, here’s what I’ve uncovered about sharing your digits:

Don’t: If you’re still not sure you like someone you’re chatting with, and feel as though you need to go on bantering a little more online before handing over your digits. Keep the conversation flowing and casually mention you’d like to keep getting to know more about them before meeting up. If they are turned off, or make you feel uncomfortable, accept this as a possible red flag.

Do: Give out your digits if you feel like you’ve hit it off with someone and wouldn’t mind a quicker chat to occur via the dancing of thumbs on your cellular phone. Also, do give them 500 bonus points if they take your digits, and instead of admiring them, they actually pick up the phone and call you to ask you out on a date.

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2 Responses to “Love At First 100hookup: Handing Out Your ‘Digits’”

  1. Sylvie Says:
    January 22nd, 2013 at 10:03 am

    So true. Might I add: A good way to avoid creepy 100hookuprs is by – uh- not giving out your number to creepy 100hookuprs!
    In my experience, if you hit it off with someone via IM or email, it’ll probably translate well into texting. If not, then there’s really no point in forcing it.

  2. elissa Says:
    January 22nd, 2013 at 1:30 pm

    this is my number. what’s yours?…as I whip out my telephone booklet and pen.NOTE MY # IS ONE DIDJET OFF till I get their number.if I’m asked where I work I reply ‘SUFFOLK COUNTY POLICE, BUNKO SQUAD.” I never seem to have any troubles just meet great honest guys.
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