Passed over, but currying favor elsewhere
under 100hookup,Online Dating,RelationshipsMy Indian coworker complains that her dating inbox is full of notes from hookup men. She is looking for someone a little more…Indian. Likewise I bemusedly find myself a hot commodity amongst Indians while going about my daily life.
I could venture to pose many psychological theories for this cross cultural phenomenon. Mainly regarding a male need to displease that special lady who carried them for nine months inside their bodies, then continued for nine years to carry them outside their bodies. But I am not trained in that sort of thing, and don’t want to come across as a know it all.