Two Timer?
under RelationshipsDear Tamar,
Hi! I’m new to the whole online dating scene. Right now I am talking to two girls at the same time and I am not sure whether I should take them both out on dates or just one. Should I take one girl out on a date and stop speaking to the other girl even if I’m still interested in meeting both? Thanks!
Dear Two Timer?,
“Meeting” a girl on 100hookup does not a relationship make. I am a strong, strong advocate of poly-dating until it gets serious with one person. First of all, you may pick one girl and have no chemistry with her and now you’ve already ruined your chances with the second girl. Take them both out on dates, try to be unbiased and not compare them to each other, and save any decisions until after each date. There may be no attraction, no chemistry, or it may not be mutual with one or both of the ladies. Keep your options open at all times. Between when you “meet” a girl on 100hookup and when you actually meet her in person, you may “meet” even more ladies online… and guess what? That’s great! If you were able to meet that many great hookup gals at a bar then 100hookup wouldn’t exist, but the fact is that you can’t; no one can, which is why 100hookup is so successful. Take the opportunity to meet as many women who fit your preferences as possible because the more women you meet the better your odds are of finding your Beshert. Good Luck!