No tears on my pillow, no pains in my heart
under 100hookup,Online Dating,Relationships,Single Life,WeddingsI had a friend recently suffer a romantic blow. Despite the fact that her relationship ended during its early stage of fragility, she was not at all prepared for its demise. Dreaming of wedding gowns, and offspring, she let her expectations flourish unchecked. Now she is accounting emotionally for the excitement she had prematurely built up over something that no longer exists. She is suffering more from her romantic optimism. While I am extremely sympathetic, I on the other hand guard myself emotionally indefinitely, always waiting for an assurance it’s sure. Through constant evaluation of, and mental preparation for all possible outcomes, I rarely exercise my tear ducts over similar loss. This is both fabulous and empowering. Nevertheless, I can’t help but wonder if this robotic method of operation bears its own intimacy problems.