Dating Dares: 25 Audacious Ways to Meet a New Love Interest
As a dating coach, I often hear singles say how hard it is to meet someone. True, it’s harder than when you’re in college, especially if you’re older and most of your friends are married. But, don’t tell me that you have “tried everything,” or I may challenge you on that! In fact, I brainstormed this rather audacious list in response to that statement. It might be challenging to guys (who’ve traditionally been the asker-outers), but I playfully entreat you ladies to take it on. What do you have to lose? Remember, “No is just a word like yes!”
In my book, When Mars When Date, there’s a chapter that examines how dating etiquette is changing. Dating experts have long suggested that a woman not offer activity ideas for dates or ask a man out. Yet, research shows that when women did ask a man out, 51% of female initiated dates led to a relationship that lasted longer than 6 months! Is it worth a try? At least it’ll make for a funny story and be an alternative to waiting for someone to discover you. Here are 25 bold ways you can meet someone new this month:
- Chat with someone on the subway
- Go to a bookstore and ask about a book someone is skimming
- Talk to someone in the bagel shop
- Introduce yourself or make conversation on the elevator
- Sit next to someone on a bus and ask how their day is going
- Say hello to someone waiting for a light on the street corner
- Start a conversation with someone in a doctor’s office
- Flirt with someone at the supermarket
- Begin a conversation in line at the bank
- Go to synagogue and meet two new dating prospects
- Hand someone cute your business card
- Compliment someone of the opposite sex
- Attend a singles event, alone
- Meet and hold eyes with someone cute across the room at a diner (and then smile!)
- Introduce yourself to someone attractive at a party – don’t wait to be approached
- Ask someone you like out for coffee – maybe a single neighbor you don’t know?
- Join 100hookup for three months and write 3 prospects each day
- Go to a corner bar and buy someone a drink
- Go dancing and ask a member of the opposite sex to dance
- Ask three acquaintances to fix you up this week
- Buy a rose and hand it to someone cute of the opposite sex who isn’t wearing a ring
- Take a class, sit next to someone cute and talk to them
- Volunteer somewhere and start chatting with any cute volunteers you meet
- Make a point to share a joke with a cute stranger today
- Go buy some CDs in a music store and talk to some guys in the same section about the bands they like and the concerts they’ve seen
Opportunities abound. You won’t be arrested for having a conversation (even in NY). There’s no guarantee any of this will work, but your openness will allow love to come to you in new ways… and this is good practice. So, here’s my challenge to you:
“Be the change you want to see in your love life and seize the date!”
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