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Feeling Safe Online

Experienced cyber-daters have found that, safety-wise, hooking up on the Net is inherently similar to meeting through offline circles. More »

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First Date Basics

Nervous about going out on that first date? Most people are. The good news is that the more you date, the easier it gets. More »

How to Write Great Essays

Snappy essays are what it takes for you to stand out in the dating crowd and, more importantly, attract the people who are right for you. More »

How to Get a Date Online

To help you make the leap and up your odds for success, we've come up with a simple recipe that seems to work wonders. More »

How to Write a First Email

Personalize every email so that the person you're writing to feels special. This may sound like a lot of work, but it's the key to getting a reply. More »

Keeping the Email Conversation Going

Talking online is just like talking in real life, with the advantage that you can take things slower and don’t have to come up with the perfect line in two seconds. More »

Making a Wish List

Do you know exactly what you’re looking for? We suggest coming up with an actual wish list and putting it on paper to make it more clear and real. More »

Online Personals Etiquette

Put your personals site to good use and listen up to what Miss Manners has to say to avoid any cyber-faux-pas. More »

Pick a Stand-Out Username

Your username is like your smile—the first thing that people see - so try to make it shine! Whatever you write should be a true reflection of you. More »

Stay Visible

If you want to be seen (and not left at the bottom of the barrel), it's best to stay active on the site and login as often as possible! More »

A Picture is Worth 1000 Dates

People like to talk to people they can see, so the more photos you have up, the more comfortable people will be emailing to you. More »