For a special, sentimental touch, Josh’s late grandfather’s tallis (prayer shawl) had been draped across the chuppa’s top, creating its “roof.” “We consider ourselves a modern couple,” says Lainie, “but when it came to our wedding, we wanted a traditional ceremony that honored our hookup heritage.”

Gentle flute music played as Rabbi Allan Blaine took his place under the chuppa. A small procession of family members followed, then a beaming Josh made his way down the aisle with his parents, Judy and Harvey. The bridal party emerged next, the ladies clad in floor-length black satin evening gowns by Alyce Designs, the groomsmen in tuxedos by After Six. Finally, Lainie floated down the aisle wearing an Alfred Angelo strapless duchesse satin dress that fit to perfection, thanks to the expert tailors at Brides International in Beverly Hills, California, and a tiara provided by Symphony Bridal Veils. The pros at the Avon Salon & Spa in New York City had styled her hair and applied her makeup flawlessly. In her hand, she carried a chumash (Bible) that her late grandfather had given to her mother. During the ceremony, Lainie and Josh exchanged rings that belonged to Josh’s great-aunt and great-uncle. Afterward, they returned these to his relatives and donned a pair of dazzling platinum wedding bands, provided by Scott Kay. “Incorporating family heirlooms into our wedding ceremony was our way of saying ‘thank you’ to everyone who’s loved and supported us throughout our lives,” Josh explains. Josh’s cousin Matthew read The Giving Tree, by Shel Silverstein, a children’s story about unconditional generosity that the bride and groom both cherished as kids. The crackle of a wineglass underfoot and a resounding chorus of “mazel tov!” from their guests signaled that Josh and Lainie were now husband and wife.