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How do I know if a member is available to receive an instant message?
If a member is online, the Let's Chat/I'm Online button flashes next to their username.
The members in the scrolling box on the left of your home page are also online.
How do I initiate an instant message?
How do I know if a member is available to receive an instant message?
What if I want to contact someone who isn’t online?