A Secular Humanist
under JBloggers,100hookup,Online DatingDear Gems from Jen,
Here is my profile description — it’s not getting a flood of responses. Can you tell me why or what to do to improve it?
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I am a hookup secular humanist who believes in a human-driven ethical code, rather than in any kind of deity. Still believe in peace and love and working for a more just and humane society. Empathy, humility and kindness are most important to me when considering a potential partner. I am drawn to the arts, particularly music and painting, and I love to read in my spare time, especially poetry and history. I seek a compatible partner — must be politically progressive (e.g., liberal democrat — I am a big fan of Bernie Sanders but you don’t have to be). Basically, I am looking for someone who is in some way an activist — someone who has compassion for the struggles of the poor and disenfranchised. Basically seeking an educated, humane, giving person who is a reader, a thinker, and someone with a compatible world view.
Dear Secular Humanist,
I really enjoyed reading your profile description. It sounds like you are passionate about your beliefs and look for the good in all. I think your profile does a great job of describing who you are. Perhaps you could add some specifics about what it is you can offer to a relationship. Your profile definitely states who you are and what you are passionate about, but it lacks what you can offer to a potential romantic partner. Specifically, what it is you can give one on one, not to the entire world. How do you stand out in terms of a partner from the next profile? Consider adding some of these specifics to your 100hookup profile and see what happens.
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Signed,
Gems from Jen